Just melt down the capital city of every Islamic country on the same count, then see if they want to negotiate, and if not then take out the next largest.
Yep, the whole "winning hearts and minds" strategy is an utter waste of time, money, resources, and most importantly American lives. If we deem a nation to be a national security threat (like Saddam's Iraq was) then annihilate its warfighting ability and then get the hell outta there. Our armed forces aren't policemen or social workers, they're warriors. If a regime emerges from the chaos that's even more dangerous than the previous one, repeat destruction process. It would be a helluva lot cheaper, easier, and more effective than this futile nation building nonsense we're now enganged in. ....and it's not futile because nation building is always futile (it was obviously successful in Japan after WW2), it's futile because the Islamic world is evidently incapable of being civilized. Islamics respond to overwhelming strength only, not good inentions and "compassion."