Can you let the lady know we are praying for her. Since she'g going to be in rehab would she like some cards and letters do you think?
I'm not in contact with Bush, but I'd bet that if you send something in care of the Jewish Federation, they'd forward it:
Jewish Federation of Greater Seattle
2031 Third Avenue
Seattle, WA 98121
There's also a memorial fund for Pam Waechter that you can contribute to at that address.