Anyone who defines themself in society by what they do with their penis or vigina has something much greater to work out than just ridicule.
Do you not identify yourself as a heterosexual?
Uhhh, why would I want or need to do that? Really, what situation would I need to identify myself other than as a MAN or a WOMAN......and that would be for public bathroom decisions. Anyone that looses their identity because of their genitals has HUGE issues IMO.
I define myself by my God, my character and my actions....in that order!