see how nice they stay.
Probably about as nice as you'd stay if someone challenged something you believe strongly in.
I've got two lesbian friends that vote republican. They do it because they support the war on terror, one is ex military, and they are otherwise libertarian and don't like high taxes. They aren't a monolythic group, these 'gays'.
There will always be debate about how society should behave, this is just one of them.