I'll take the baby. When mom and dad figure out that this was the greatest thing to happen in their lives and want her back I'll give her back. I'll pay to have the baby sent to me and my wife and kids and she will be loved in this family while mom gets over whatever it is that has her in this mess.
Adoption is forever or when it's undone in a court action it is a horrible thing for the adoptive parents. We know the babies not ours but we are just taking care of her while mom recovers.
Have had about a dozen foster babies over the years they were all adopted in the end. We have however made the above offer to hundreds of women planning abortion and it stopped hundreds in their tracks. Funny how you realize what a blessing you have when the blessing is desired by another. Often just a day or a few hours a day without the baby and the stress of that care will allow mom some time and rest. Mom might see if a local church has a program to take babies for a short time and see if that helps. Mom likely needs somebody to talk to and that support goes a long way to help this woman adjust to being mom.
When I read your post my heart "smiled":')