>>>Hmmm. Is there a hint here of someone who is not secure enough in her personhood to be able to accept role differences without feeling attacked?>>>
Why does there have to be 'role differences'? I don't feel attacked, I feel disgusted.
"Why does there have to be 'role differences'? I don't feel attacked, I feel disgusted."
Because each and every person has gifts and challenges. Things they excel at and things they stink at.
Do you suggest that men and women are exactly the same?
Why did my wife have to be the one to nurse our children?
You don't act disgusted, you act attacked. I am a bad psychologist, but you might want to ponder your reaction to the obvious differences we are born with. They are not belittling, they are beautiful (and I'm not just talking about breasts).
Shalom.