as an adult adoptee that really ticks me off. Although adoption can be a wonderful experience for all concerned most often it has been a terribly painful experience fraught with physical and mental abuse and leads to life long identity issues with the adoptee.
It certainly shouldn't be considered a comparable option to a loving birth mother.
Just give yourself a late late term abortion if you are unhappy.
Adoption is not cake, but it's better than death.
That needs editing:
It certainly shouldn't be considered a comparable option to a pair of loving, financially and morally stable of birth mother parents.
There, that's better. Compared to a stable two-parent family, single mothers do not provide a good environment to raise a child, period. Emotional expressions about "love" mean little when a child could be just as loved and be better off in every other way.
I'm sorry if not being raised by your birth mother has caused you pain, but you are beyond wrong on this, and I know from persoanl experience.