I agree. People (of both sexes, all political stripes) impute all sorts of unflattering things to attractive people, especially women. It really makes no sense, but what does make sense is that a woman would just reject a man who harbors all sorts of negative feelings about her even before he gets to know her well.
That's what I mean when I say I like to surround myself with positive thinking people. Negativity is something I avoid at all costs, it isn't good for the mind or the spirit and doesn't help.