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I think I didn't make myself clear - I wasn't speaking exclusively in terms of romantically attracting women (though that is a subset of what I am describing). Very goodlooking women are just women - they do have a different set of advantages over other people, but also a different set of challenges.

I don't think your conclusion that very goodlooking women are shallow is fair (actually, that mindset might be coming through subconsciously and is alienating some of these women who you say you have rarely done well with). I don't immediately think that very goodlooking women are notably shallow (though some of them clearly are), but in any event it's not a very useful belief to hold.

My views aren't unusually rose colored - sure some women are stuck up, shallow, etc. I just don't give them any mind. I don't think every woman I have interacted very well with has been sexually attracted to me -in fact, I know that's not the case. I have no idea why you cite that - in fact, it's pretty faulty reasoning on your part and very misplaced.

That may be something you got from that dating expert, but I have to also point out that by your own admission you 'rarely' have had friendly or otherwise positive responses from very goodlooking women, or any woman.

Maybe you should at least consider changing your approach or outlook. That is, maybe it hasn't consistently been that the women you have encountered had a problem. Maybe somebody else had a problem.

Losing time after time will inevitably distort one's perspective somewhat, but maybe it also allows me to see some things you don't.

It's absurd for you to infer that I've done poorly with women in general just because I've done poorly with hotties. I've done OK with moderately good-looking women, but they are more normal human beings, and I would say more human.