"Unfortunately, the choice of the word "mother" is disturbingly ironic."
I'm not pointing this at the person I was replying to. If a woman loses a baby naturally she is still referred to as a mother. I kinda figure that even if she succumbs to the propaganda she is still a mother. Those women that I know who have been through this have all felt a high level of pain and guilt after the 'procedure'.
I think your choice of the word "mother" is correct, in that our interpretation of the word fits correctly.
However, I wonder if the abortion mills and their agents have ever used the word "mother", even inadvertantly?