First, May God keep you and heal you. My son just hit me with the news that he has impregnated his "girlfriend" (He is 27, She is 22). It has really strained our relationship. He married the girl as soon as they found out. He has recently done some very stupid things and has suffered as a result of his poor choices. The only thing he did right was HE AND SHE DID NOT MURDER THE BABY (THE ONLY INNOCENT PERSON INVOLVED)As bad as an abortion is, I think God can and will forgive if we ask in the right spirit and with humility admit our mistakes. There are no "little sins". BTW, this is my opinion, Other people on this thread are free to agree or disagree, We will all be held accountable for our actions and thoughts.
My son is pro-life, however, and he told her if she had the abortion, he would never talk to her again. So she decided to give the baby up for adoption instead. But when we went for her first ultrasound and she saw her daughter move, she decided to keep her.
Teegan will be 3 in 2 weeks. She's gorgeous, smart, funny, loving, and adorable. Her mother is still in love with her father but he does not love her, so they live apart. It's difficult but it sure beats the alternative.
Teegan comes over to her Daddy's house every weekend (he is living at home temporarily so it's really Grandma's and Papa's house), so her Daddy is very much involved in her life. She is incredibly lucky to have a family who adores her, and to have life.