Actually, the truth is I thought I wrote that first post as a private note not to talk about abortion, but to warn the woman who started the thread that she may get some flak about her confession, that's all. I just hit the wrong button.
Not all abortion accounts are equal.
"I had an abortion; it was wrong and I regret it."
"I had an abortion; I'm glad I did it, and still think it was the right decision."
This post is the former. Mine is as well. Yours is the latter.
There is an ocean of difference between the two accounts.