Then you should not be surprised if people get personal and accusatory with you.
I assume you would not advocate making the murder of say, grandmothers by their granddaughters legal. Now imagine someone shows up in here and says: "A long time ago I hired a gangster to kill my grandmother. It was very traumatic for me. It should be very difficult to hire gangsters for that purpose, but it should be legal". What would your personal reaction to that person be?
Absolutely one of the most ridiculous things I've read at FR...and that says ALOT.