I won't be able to attend this mission although I wish I could..but rest assured, the Guard will make sure the service is private.
To everyone else attending, the guard doesn't flip birds or in any way even acknowledge the presense of protestors. The best thing FReepers can do is keep their fingers to themselves and simply show respect to the family by ensuring the protestors are surrounded and IGNORED.
God Bless Our Troops
Mrs. Velez just called in to a morning radio show (God Bless her) and echoed your last paragraph, FYI.