Thank you for your post. I have never heard of a religous Jew having a problem with religous displays. I even have several friends who are Jewish that are on my Christmas present list. I'm on their list of people that they celebrate haunakah with.
Pfft, Hanukah is a minor holiday, and would be unknown to the average non-Jew and even many secular Jews, if not for its proximity to Christmas and comparable tradition of gift giving. In Christian terms it would be like inviting a friend over for a party on Whitsunday.
Now if they invite you for Seder supper at Passover, you know they really think highly of you.
-ccm