That is absurd.
If my big city police department is very corrupt and it is pretty much controlled by Irish men, is it wrong to point that out?
Your statement (about your family) is ridiculous and theatrical. Write a screenplay.
Brilliant rebuttal. That's right--continue to tar people you don't like by ethnic/racial branding rather than call them out as individuals. If you cannot understand how making sweeping negative statements about Jews affects ALL Jews (including myself and family) then you are either deluded or just plain dumb.