[Samwise]

Am I a lazy, superficial person because I don't enjoy packing up their sports kit, or making their lunch, or sitting through coffee mornings with other mothers discussing how Mr Science (I can't remember most of the teachers' names) said such and such to Little Johnny and should we all complain to the headmaster.

No, you are not superficial because you don't enjoy it. You are superficial because you think everything is supposed to be for your enjoyment.

[carlo3b]

Am I a lazy, superficial person because I don't enjoy packing up their sports kit, or making their lunch,...

Sam, I am well known as a chef at our school activities, and I am forever shocked whenever I have a mother come up to me and laugh, that they never use their stove or any other utensil in the kitchen because they never learned to enjoy cooking.. They should only know what I am thinking..

God, I hope these kids survive this curse..