Seriously, Dads are there to counteract the mother's smothering lest the kids grow up to be basket cases (and unable to take care of themselves). We encourage our children to take risks (yes, from a very young age).
As a total aside, this is why it is ideal for children to have a male and a female parent. One needs both outlooks to develop properly. AND Neither parent's outlook should be the dominant one.
And they never did wander off.