I'm my husband's first wife.
I "ballooned up" to just over 180 last year, the year we got married.
I'm halfway to my weight loss goal, and am thanking God that my husband isn't embarrassed to go out in public with me.
Mine probably lies. When I bring my weight up he says he wants me to lose for health reasons but sees me just like I was 36 years ago when we got married:') Sometimes though, (not in your and my case )a man that nags and belittles a woman for being overweight just lowers her self esteem and makes things worse because they turn to their comfort foods.
Congratulations on your weight loss.