How many posts have you made?
My focus on this thread is on the behavior of the person who hooks up with someone they obviously know nothing about. A topic that usually is supported here on FR, personal responsibility.
This is definately about responsibility. It was the initial actions of the tricksters that is responsible for the violent reactions.
The situation would not happen unless or until the "normal, heterosexual male" makes a decision using only guidance from his penis instead of his brain.
The initial action is a person that purposely set out to deceive.
Gotcha, if I don't agree with you, I'm defending the trickster. That, of course, is a crock.
Are you really suggesting that your reaction to [fill in the blank] is not something you control?
You want to focus on the actions of the gender bender, that's fine, but don't pretend that an appropriate response is violence under those circumstances.