I hate all divorce. I think it is tragic.
people get selfish. people start thinking about THEIR MONEY and THEIR future.
Yeah I am young
But I figure life is supposed to be a team sport. human beings were not created to be ok lonely. you have to think as a team. more "us" and less "me".
There are a number of factors contributing to the high divorce rate. Sometimes the two people should never have married in the first place. Yet any two people who commit to a life together are STILL two different personalities and won't agree on everything, whether it's "you are spending too much money" or "you're mother gets on my nerves" or "you let junior get away with too much".
The list is endless...it's not easy.
At the risk of being flamed I'll say that when husband and wife both have a "career", that could create the "your money" vs "my money" scenario.
Most of these two-income couples still want children...but they consider their work world more important than being with their children...even some who could afford to do that.
Oops! I got off topic! As to divorce, no one can be expected to stay with an abusive spouse...one who abuses them or their children.