ok, so get up and quit freeping and go protest, pass out leaflets urging troubled mothers to keep or adopt out their babies, or whatever.
on the other hand, "he who does not provide for his own, and especially for his relatives, is worse than an unbeliever." I would not have put that in the Bible if it had been up to me to write it. Too "selfish" to fit the rest of the motif. But it's in there.
The answer, for most, is "do both."
That was a high-value reply. Thanks.