I can see that we have very different ideas about children. I imagine you would feel quite differently if you had a disabled child, but you are entitled to your opinion. Personally, I believe that children are created specially by God, and we should help them to become productive members of society. I must say that I am glad that I haven't encountered others that share your views. Have a good afternoon.
Compassion in the pursuit of perfection is a shortsighted path to an unattainable goal which shortchanges those who pursue it as well as those who encourage it.