What is the diff?
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Admitting to marrying the wrong person is not in any way saying that you did anything to cause the divorce, only that you entered a marriage that you never should have entered. I have met many women who said this same thing. It is really just another way of saying that the divorce was his fault. In my wife's case I believe that having made the initial mistake she made every effort to hold the marriage together but it would have been impossible given the sort of man she married. Given a different upbringing he might have been a better man but he never overcame all the crazy things that happened to him while growing up. I never said that ALL those women who blamed the man were wrong, just that some of them had to be at fault and I never met one who accepted the responsibility in the way that some men do.
"Admitting to marrying the wrong person is not in any way saying that you did anything to cause the divorce, only that you entered a marriage that you never should have entered."
That implies "fault" to me. Was she or wasn't she?