Not really. But many people want things that will harm them. Addicts will die taking their drugs. Alcoholics will drink until their health is ruined or lives lost. They weren't born that way either. You, of all people, should know that human nature is sin. And it deeply hurts people. It's also painful to watch their hurt. My brother has left the gay lifestyle because a belief in God. Is he straight? No. He found the strenghth to love God more than himself.
Beautiful response. God bless him abundantly, and you, too.