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'I want to formally apologize' (for urinating on National War Memorial)
The Ottawa Citizen ^ | Saturday, July 08, 2006 | Kelly Roesler and Marissa Larouche-Smart

Posted on 07/08/2006 9:23:49 AM PDT by fanfan

Three young men who found themselves at the centre of a national controversy after being photographed urinating on the National War Memorial on Canada Day have apologized to "veterans and all Canadians" for their actions that night.

One of the men, a youth from Ottawa who cannot be identified by law, wrote in a letter that he did not realize he was violating a national monument and that he was "ignorant" in doing so.

In the letter, obtained by the Citizen, the youth wrote in French, "I am sorry for my actions and their repercussions, and if I had known what this rock represented before the incident, you would not need to be here now, reading this letter. I apologize not just to all veterans, but to each Canadian citizen I have offended."

The Ottawa police say the other two young men involved in the incident -- another Ottawa youth who cannot be identified and 23-year-old Stephen Fernandes of Montreal -- have also written letters of apology to the police, expressing remorse for their actions.

Yesterday, Ottawa police charged Mr. Fernandes with mischief. He will make his first court appearance Aug. 1.

Stephen Fernandes says he was so intoxicated he doesn't remember urinating on the National War Memorial. Photograph by : Peter McCabe, The Gazette

"I was embarrassed," Mr. Fernandes said yesterday about the incident and the ensuing publicity.

Two days after the incident, a friend called to tell him that his photograph had been on the front page of the Citizen. "I was in complete and utter shock," he said, adding he felt immediately remorseful.

He said he didn't intend to disgrace anyone -- war veterans or his family -- and he will take responsibility for his actions. "I want to formally apologize to anyone I may have offended."

Mr. Fernandes said that not only did he not intend to desecrate the war memorial, but he was almost embarrassed to admit he didn't know how significant the monument is to veterans, and revealed he once volunteered at a veterans' hospital in Quebec.

As to what happened the night of July 1, Mr. Fernandes said, "I know this sounds ridiculous, but I have no recollection of what happened that night. I drank about 26 ounces of vodka and some beers."

He said he drove from Montreal to Ottawa on the afternoon of July 1 and met with some friends. They began partying immediately, he said, and he remembers nothing after 11 p.m. "I don't even remember when the picture was taken."

Mr. Fernandes said he doesn't know the two Ottawa youths who were also photographed urinating on the memorial.

The photos, taken by retired army major Dr. Michael Pilon shortly after 11 p.m. last Saturday, sparked outrage among veterans, residents and politicians.

Dr. Pilon said earlier this week he doesn't think the young men should be fined, saying he holds government officials responsible for not protecting the memorial.

Yesterday, lawyer Lawrence Greenspon said that the two youths have made arrangements with the Royal Canadian Legion to perform community service. Mr. Greenspon brokered the deal after he was contacted by the parents of one youth who said their son wanted to "make things good and apologize."

Mr. Greenspon arranged for the youth to visit the Legion and meet with veterans. The youth then offered to work with the veterans by way of restitution, a plan that was approved by the Crown and police, said Mr. Greenspon.

"He and his buddy went went to Parliament Hill to see the fireworks," he said. "They really had to go (to the bathroom), they did their business and they didn't realize it was the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier," he said. "They just didn't realize the significance of the place where they were doing their business."

Bob Butt, director of communications for the Royal Canadian Legion, said veterans welcomed the apology. "We believe that the apology was contrite and that the young man knows what he did wrong after all the publicity that they gained," he said. "He's come and apologized, and he volunteered of his own free will to take on work with a veterans' organization."

And that, said Mr. Butt, is the silver lining -- the chance for the youth to learn more about the role veterans played in Canada's history. "From the two young men, I don't believe it was an act of blatant disregard; it was probably an act that demanded a lot of education," he said.

On Thursday, the young man and Mr. Greenspon went to the police station, where the youth wrote his apology. In it he said that at the moment of the incident, "I was not under the impression I was urinating on a monument, but rather on a simple rock," he wrote. He had felt the urge to urinate for some time, even before the fireworks display. But afraid to miss the show, he waited. And after the 20-minute wait to leave Parliament Hill, he wrote, he simply couldn't wait.

"I therefore decided to find an isolated spot in the midst of the crowd of people. I found the rock (which I now know to be the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier). ... I'm sorry for my actions and the repercussions."

Meanwhile, Mr. Fernandes said he knows being drunk does not excuse his actions and that he would gladly do community work and pay a fine. He said he called Ottawa police on Wednesday to identify himself and drove there on Thursday to turn himself in.

He said the publicity surrounding the incident has been humiliating. "It's not easy knowing the entire country thinks you're a dim-wit."


TOPICS: Canada; Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Foreign Affairs; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: 1theyaresorry; 2thattheywerecaught; apology; memorialdesecration; warmemorial
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To: kanawa

I'm gonna have to learn to write in a box!! ;)

True, he reminds me of an idiot who showed up on a thread around St. Patrick's Day, claiming Ireland to be the most anti-American country in Europe - he somehow thought that Irish 60,000 volunteers (his figures, it's closer to 40,000) in WWII weren't good enough!!


121 posted on 07/08/2006 3:57:09 PM PDT by Irish_Thatcherite (A vote for Bertie Ahern is a vote for Gerry Adams!|The IRA are actually terrorists, any questions?)
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To: GMMAC
BTW, anyone else catching more than a slight whiff of 'eau de troll' when it comes to this mouthy newbie?

I don't know... I think he just has trouble thinking outside the box ;~)

122 posted on 07/08/2006 3:58:52 PM PDT by kanawa
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To: Irish_Thatcherite
One wonders if "Professor Spatso" has an additional FR identity?

Oh well, I know where I stand:

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123 posted on 07/08/2006 4:01:45 PM PDT by GMMAC (Discover Canada governed by Conservatives: www.CanadianAlly.com)
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To: GMMAC

I really don't get it... people turning up bashing other countries.. as if America has the monopoly on conservatism.


124 posted on 07/08/2006 4:02:09 PM PDT by Irish_Thatcherite (A vote for Bertie Ahern is a vote for Gerry Adams!|The IRA are actually terrorists, any questions?)
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To: GMMAC

He could do... the chap I referred to there has now been banned, he certainly resembled spatso...


125 posted on 07/08/2006 4:03:36 PM PDT by Irish_Thatcherite (A vote for Bertie Ahern is a vote for Gerry Adams!|The IRA are actually terrorists, any questions?)
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To: Pro-Bush
I thought this was about Ozzy - he pissed on the Alamo in the 80's.

I bet he wishes he had known better at the time.

126 posted on 07/08/2006 4:05:26 PM PDT by fanfan (Temporary tag line.)
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To: GMMAC
One wonders if "Professor Spatso" has an additional FR identity?

Nah..The Professor could actually string more than two sentences together at a time. ;~D

127 posted on 07/08/2006 4:07:39 PM PDT by kanawa
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To: fanfan
That a 23 year old guy got blind stinking drunk is not news ...

That he did it on that country's national birthday in a big blow out party in a park is not news..( and he didn't go out driving drunk)

That he relived him self in public wile blind stinking drunk at a big blow out party in a park is not news...

That he did it on a Veteran monument (that he didn't know it was a Veteran monument at the time) is news...

And that when he found out what he did when he was blind stinking drunk he fessed up and apologized is news...

So let's cut him some slack...

Because there for the grace of luck, pee I

And that includes a lot of other's here...

Including a lot of vet's when they were young, dumb, and full of "urine"

128 posted on 07/08/2006 4:22:27 PM PDT by tophat9000 (If it was illegal French Canadians would La Raza back them? Racist back their race over country)
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To: tophat9000

BTTT!


129 posted on 07/08/2006 4:23:31 PM PDT by fanfan (Temporary tag line.)
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To: MississippiMan
He said he didn't intend to disgrace anyone -- war veterans or his family -- and he will take responsibility for his actions.

I didn't even know the french language had the capability of expressing such a sentiment!

It's the English Canadian influence.

;-)

130 posted on 07/08/2006 4:26:14 PM PDT by fanfan (Temporary tag line.)
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To: GMMAC
Why the Admin Mods haven't punched his plainly abusive & trollish ticket by now is beyond me.

For some reason we don't understand, we haven't become admin mods.

Darn.

;-)

131 posted on 07/08/2006 4:30:51 PM PDT by fanfan (Temporary tag line.)
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To: kanawa
Good enough for The Legion...Good enough for me

Same here!

Look at how much everyone has learned about the existence of the tomb of the unknown soldier.

132 posted on 07/08/2006 4:50:52 PM PDT by fanfan
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To: Killborn

I like your tag line.

:-D


133 posted on 07/08/2006 4:52:08 PM PDT by fanfan
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To: fanfan

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to relase urinating on a War Memorial, any Memorial, is just plain wrong!

"I'm Sorry" doesn't even begin to atone for such a despicable act.


134 posted on 07/08/2006 4:55:24 PM PDT by DakotaRed
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To: kanawa
Bump to your post Kanawa.

Thank you for making it.
135 posted on 07/08/2006 5:00:26 PM PDT by fanfan
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To: kanawa; GMMAC
Nah..The Professor could actually string more than two sentences together at a time. ;~D

Yeah maybe, but none of his sentences were based on logic.

136 posted on 07/08/2006 5:05:25 PM PDT by fanfan
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137 posted on 07/08/2006 5:58:00 PM PDT by CaptainCanada ("Macht doch Eiern Dreck aleene!" (Take care of your own mess!).)
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To: fanfan

THank you. :)


138 posted on 07/08/2006 6:50:20 PM PDT by Killborn (Pres. Bush isn't Pres. Reagan. Then again, Pres. Regan isn't Pres. Washington. God bless them all.)
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To: GMMAC

Every nation has its fools. Anyone who pretends otherwise has their head well and truly buried in the sand. Any American who sets out to belittle their naton's traditional friends is no patriot.


139 posted on 07/08/2006 7:40:17 PM PDT by Fair Go
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To: fanfan
It's obvious many of us have had days/nights of way to much to drink. I've promised God on a few occasions, if he got me through the night, I'd never drink again, we get it.

We've all done stupid things drunk, but you'll be hard pressed to find many who have urinated on a war memorial.

Why they shouldn't receive jail time, how's this for an appropriate punishment?

They claim they didn't know it was a memorial. Sentence them to research the memorial, the names on the memorial, the wars these people were associated with. Have them pick some heroic stories the monument represents. Make them write a report on what they've learned.

The next part of the sentence should be for these three to go into schools, elementary on up to explain the kids the historical significance of the memorial. To tell the kids what these people did giving their lives for their country. Have them give respect back to those they urinated on by teaching school age kids respect for the military and those who give their lives in service to their country.
140 posted on 07/08/2006 7:58:14 PM PDT by Brytani (Someone stole my tagline - reward for its return!!!)
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