I agree, it would have ben a better choice of words...but I do think they've beenn nejoying the whole package and that wouldn't be available to them w/o the deaths of their husbands.
I have! I have friends who's husbands have died and that's all they talk about. They treated them like hell and now 'saint' never leaves their mouth. No matter what the conversation is at the time, they never fail to cut in with "poor Marvin" and how wonderful he was.Everyone knows what bitches they were with the poor guys. These women thrive on attention and talking about 'the dead' gives them uninterrupted audience.They love it!