It is so sad her husband had to die, because she was so oh, I don't know, idiotic. Man, I would be all apologetic and get a second job, whatever it took to make amends to my family and my husband. Not shoot him when his back was to me. Sad. Sad. Sad what people do when they are desperate and full of shame (or atleast she should have felt this way. That would seem a normal,healthy reaction.)
Well, first of all I wouldn't fall for a scam like this, though I know people do all the time (I read those emails and laugh like crazy that anyone could believe them), but say I did and put my family into a bad place as a result, killing my husband and leaving someone else to raise my three babies wouldn't even enter the equation.