Sounds like you need to move some place with a lower cost of living.
I'd love to. But mr. elc is in process of getting a green card sponsored by his company. Can't go anywhere until that happens. And really he feels he must give them a couple more years after that since they've paid for the whole thing.
Ideally we'll be out of here is 3 or so years when we're ready for baby number 2 and I can stay home with both of them.