"Why dump on her and accuse her of being greedy or selfish, when all you know about her is that she has a job which requires her child to be in child care for at least one day a week?"
Because she, a total stranger, is not living her life exactly the way he thinks all women should; therefore she paid a price that some around here are pretty smug about. Again, not my brand of Christianity.
"Again, not my brand of Christianity." Mine either! Careful, the last time I invoked Christianity in protestation of harsh rhetoric I was accused of being liberal! I am a strong advocate of the notion that kids should be at home with their moms. That doesn't mean I would pounce on a tragedy and use it to blast a mother for her circumstances.