Yes. VERY important and I'm not being facetious. I am genuinely VERY sorry. That is no easy thing to face in this evil world.
However, you can not hide behind that now to keep people from piling on.
Regarding your position on nasty haters. I disagree profoundly with your tactics here. I have, on occasion, been on the receiving end of them. And I will flat out tell you that you are nasty to people with whom you disagree...and regularly. So calling other people mean and nasty is really kind of petty.
It is not bad in and of itself to do so, and lots of grumpy posters do it and are well tolerated because they don't take themselves too seriously. But, as far as I'm concerned when you can't suck it up and take as good as you give...any respect I might have had for you disappears.
You are not a victim here. I think my post to you regarding your comments to Dane earlier today are just the most recent example.
You lost. Let it go, do your penance, accept your hazing and live on to fight another day. If you don't you look just like the people on the other side of the aisle that lose time after time, but continue to believe they've won some sort of moral victory.
It just makes you look like a pompous idiot.
BUMP!