The article points out the extreme narcissism of all of these people. Can't get pregnant? They demand it. More than they want? "Reduce" the pregnancy. One woman says having one child is a step up from having a goldfish. It's only a child if the parents want it. If they don't, just flush it, like a goldfish.
That wasn't the point. The woman who made the goldfish comment was dissing parents who had single births as not being that busy compared to a mother who has twins.