Yup. Most people eventually grow up and figure stuff out. Some never do. Mostly, they are called liberals.
Some only figure part of it out. They are called moderates.
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I read the article in Parade. They are homo-phobic because there was not one word about homosexual marriage being good for homosexuals. So they must want homosexuals to stay in the closet. What other conclusion is there in this enlightened age in the year 2006.
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