spatso,
to hazard a guess, I'd say fanfan's irritation with you is a direct result of your somewhat belligerent posts and questions, coupled with your unsubtle insinuation that fanfan might have a personal interest in Canadian "gay Meccas"
for a rather new n00B, you certainly have a well-developed knack for annoying people needlessly. Perhaps you should stop and reflect on that for a bit.