Wow... $20+Kilodollars for a one day party?
That just strikes me as silly. Just starting out a life together and the first thing you do is pour a nice nest egg down the drain.
There are people who sit less than 20 feet away from me at work who have spent double that on their weddings. (And two of them have since divorced.)
What a waste of money. Sheesh. *shakes head*
Let's just have a party, OK? You get the kegs and I'll get the food. ;-)