I do hope, for your sake, your little never-never land bubble isn't punctured. Your type of fantasy world belief is what ends up on page one when reality barges in and punches you in the nose.
Please, no need to respond, I have found that when I try to reason with a post, the post usually wins.
It's sad that a normal, stable, lifelong marriage - a situation that millions and millions of Americans enjoy - is a "little never never land bubble" in your mind.
Do you really believe that there are almost no happy marriages in the world at all? That a happy marriage is truly an unattainable fantasy?