This is a book about that subject, I read it and enjoyed it. (I've always been interested in what makes women tick)
The book is "Sleeping with Soldiers"
http://www.myzonarosa.com/soldiers.htm
HAHAHA! I slept with one soldier.
I was married to him, and I was a soldierette at the same time. We joined on the new "married buddy plan" after we'd been married several years.