As much as I agree with Ann that the victimhood has been used shamelessly for politics by the Jersey girls, Cindy Sheehan, and Berg I think Ann went too far in saying, perhaps their husbands were going to divorce them. Criticism of their politicking is well deserved. Personal attacks of that sort only give talking points to the left.
I disagree.
One of my coworkers took me to task for my not making the same arbitrary distinction you've made regarding Bill Clinton's personal life.
I was completely vindicated when that same coworker later complained bitterly about how Clinton "lied to the American people." I reminded him I warned him any man that would lie to the person they sleep with every night wouldn't think twice about lying to strangers
Speculation such as Coulter has put forward is simple extrapolation.