Here's another good article debunking the "Jersey Girls" from the superb Claudia Rossett.
http://www.opinionjournal.com/medialog/?id=110004950
The prominence of the four "Jersey Girls" is due to their being -- and willingness to be used as -- convenient media props to bash the Bush administration and Republicans -- a posture that is contrary to the vast majority of 9/11 families and a normal sense of grief. The "Jersey Girls" have long deserved a heavy dose of scorn and derision and Ann Coulter has delivered it. From now on, no one will think of those four preening, publicity hungry harpies without Coulter's comments working away in the back of their mind.