I was sorta thinking of setting Cindy up with Michael Newdow, that bulgy-foreheaded atheist lawyer doctor.
It looks like he's the sensitive type. I don't think we even have to be in conflict with this--my choice vs. your choice for Cindy. There's no reason she can't have them both at the same time. They are lefties afterall and not constrained by societal norms. They could all live miserably ever after.