If you don't think gay activism along with judicial activism isn't a "real" problem in this country then you're beyond help.
"beyond help"?
What, you mean there's something two days of worthless babble from the Senate on a no-go Amendment can't fix!?
Gay activism is not such a problem that it requires a constitutional amendment to prevent states from legislating in family law issues, an acknowledged Tenth Amendment power. If a state can't find the popular support to amend their own constitution, don't expect the other 49 to pull their chestnuts out of the fire for them.