I'm glad you're so sure of all things in life.
He may have been one, he and she may have been married as such and he may have lived his life as one. And to me I really don't care what goes on the stone.
I just wonder what he had listed on his paperwork. The Army is a great big stone that takes a bunch of pushing sometimes to get moving when it comes to paperwork.
It's not that; I just know how to read. See post #42
The VA link that taxcontrol provided had a part about ordering the marker. It said that information was to be given by the next of kin. It looks like they would defer to them. Also, at the bottom of the list of symbols, it states that they must be approved. They will have to have the dreaded committees meet to approve a new one. Could take a long time.