You also have never dealt with women who are capable of kicking a lot of men's arses in their own right.
And in my case, I am large enough that I have to be extremely careful in how to deal with an abusive woman, given that I can severely injure her even if I am just trying to restrain her.
So I take serious umbrage at your statement "Get your pair out of her purse." That was pure idiocy - in fact, I would call it worse, but it would not pass the posting guidelines.
Would you allow yourself to be abused by a woman?
You've got many ways to avoid this, pick the right woman, communicate effectively and with love, and when things get heated, be able to remain of clear thought.
Strength under control is gentleness, and it is possible to restrain without causing harm, but not if you are ham-handed or over emotional.