Posted on 05/21/2006 11:55:33 AM PDT by Extremely Extreme Extremist
You don't know crap about my daddy who was in the home. And now you're being really nasty.
My post scares you? Well yours doesn't scare me. I've been listening to wacky feminists spew the same nonsense 30 years.
Not that scary. Look, it's life. If you're lucky you get born and along the way you grow up, flirt, drink, fight, get hurt, heal, hear some good music, see some sights, both man made and natural, raise the family etc. etc. at some point ya die and the last thing going through your mind should be, "damn, that was fun!"
As much as it's scary, he does have a very valid point.
There's a common thread among most criminals--they've had at best a weak or violent father figure--or often, none at all.
While they do exist, most people who've had a father figure have do better in life and usually remain on the right side of the law.
There ain't anyway I want to look at that post. Its really just rather silly to make a judgement that unless you've been married and faithful for 20 years you don't know what love is.
My post scares you? Well yours doesn't scare me. I've been listening to wacky feminists spew the same nonsense 30 years.
You're a really patient guy. I would have just walked away after a few minute -- okay, maybe after five or six years if they had a nice pair of uh,...oh never mind.
Perhaps. But I remember in HS, the kids who were the most f'd up were the ones that came from home with a father and mother. Most were from upper class families, drank, did drugs, got suspended, etc. The ones who excelled were the ones that everyone expected to fail- myself being one of them.
Please stop acting like the victim.
YOU'RE the person who said your father was a disappointment, not me. You've got some chutzpah there. You say he was a lousy father, then you get mad at me for saying you have daddy issues.
I can say with relative certainty that your dad did a bad job of parenting you, based upon what you have said on this thread, and because of that bad parenting, you don't realize the value of fathers.
Well I guess I can be grateful then, I'm only known to have a serious chemical imbalance instead.
The gentleman IS the father of the toddler, not of the 8 year old. My point is he considers them BOTH as his own children.
And if that's true, then what's right is whatever you decide is right. Nothing good will come from situational ethics.
Don't put words in my mouth. My comments were directed at one specific issue, where a poster said a child conceived of rape should be put up for adoption, because choosing single motherhood, even in that case was wrong. I gave an example (my friend and her family) that proved that absolutist attitude to be wrong.
She was raped at 15, gave birth 2 weeks after turning 16 and kept her child as a single mother with the support of her family. 4 years later she married and now has another child and they have a wonderful family. Show me where ethics or morals have been compromised in the least in this situation.
"I can say with relative certainty that your dad did a bad job of parenting you, based upon what you have said on this thread, and because of that bad parenting, you don't realize the value of fathers."
You haven't read a single post of mine in this thread if that's what you believe. And I'm truly sorry for you really.
That's the overall trend.
In high school, the reverse is true--I went to a high school where my classmates drove BMW, Lincoln, and Lexus. And they were the ones with drugs, sex, underage drinking, etc.
But in the adult world, it's almost always the case that those in prison didn't have a father figure (or at least a positive male influence)
Cite ONE inaccuracy in your post? I cited two. Your contention thatthe "current war" has a "large" impact on demographics, i.e., that it reduces the number of marriagable males in quantities sufficient to be an excuse for women having children without fathers is inaccurate. Do you think that a diminution in the number of males (married and unmarried) of .000000013% causes the phenomenon cited in the article. It cannot. And that is why your analysis is inaccurate. It's your analysis to defend, and when you overstate the facts, then you will be called on it.
The number one determinant of whether a boy will get in trouble with the law is: Does he have a daddy in the home?
70% of black children are born today out of wedlock.
25% of nonblack children are born today out of wedlock.
Kids deserve both genders as parents. Mother Nature knows best, and the feminist hubris of the past 40 years would be laughable, if not so societally harmful.
ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks, I needed that!
But you stated earlier in the thread you were raised without a father in the home... are you a criminal?
Show me a statistic of children born to single mothers and sperm donors.
I AM WOMAN
WATCH ME ROAR
IN NUMBERS
TOO BIG TO IGNORE!!
Guess what? It was BS when Helen Reddy sang it, and it still is.
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