I applied to all 8 Ivies. Because I had SATs (real ones) >1500, I had a shot. Because my HS average was 89.93, they all could figure out that I was lazy.
I went to Colgate, which (fortunately) was trying to raise their Princeton Review ranking, which as you know weights average freshman SAT score highly.
I had a blast at Colgate, which was not then co-ed, but no, that had nothing to do with what I did later.
My kids go to state schools. I think the whole thing is a scam.
"daughter who is INSISTING that I pay for an Ivy League Education ( she got into Columbia with no tuition aid at all ) when I can only afford the tuition for a good state university"
Would she be willing to take out loans to pay the difference? What does she want to major in?