Wow - I learned something today. Thanks. Pretty pathetic, isn't it?
It is very pathetic, and you would be surprised how often this goes on. I knew a Police Lt that always had a beautiful Girl on his arm in Public, and he was boyish,but I was dumbfounded when I met his Lover's roommate under other employment circumstances and found out it was a guy. He told me things that were disturbing especially things I had been wondering about, like being off the air and unavailable for hours because he was meeting the Lover on duty in another City. Yikes, the possibility of blackmail....was horrific.