A few years ago, even I, a San Francisco resident, might have suggested that you were exaggerating. Not today. The way things are being portrayed in pop culture, we're getting to the point that girls are encouraged not to 'limit themselves' to boys as sex partners, and it's only a matter of time before guys are going to be treated the same.
Moving from the fake world to the all-too-real: after years of promising "we only want to be free to be who we are," there's no doubt about it anymore; the Gay-stapo wants the power only accorded by law to make everyone like they are, and to marginalize those who resist as archaic, hateful, and dangerous.
P.S.: I don't have this on authority, but I read somewhere that since Brokeback Mountain was released, sales of cowboy hats have plummeted.