[Tax-chick]

A girlfriend can't "cheat," as there is no reasonable expectation of fidelity in that relationship. Just a quibble ...

I don't take any of it personally. I just, as an outside observer, have the impression that you've gone beyond prudence to paranoia. But maybe not ... statistically-improbable bad stuff does happen to some people, or we wouldn't have the stories. On the other hand (the third hand?) we have no proof that all the stories are true.

[JamesP81]

third hand

gripping hand, if you're a scifi nut like me.

It's all kind of moot anyway. All things in my life are in God's hands, this included. If He desires that I marry someone, I'm sure He will let me know in his own way in his own time. And He can be trusted.