Posted on 05/02/2006 1:10:54 PM PDT by meandog
New York, N.Y. – In her new memoir, NOW IT'S MY TURN(Simon & Schuster/Threshold Editions, 2006), Mary Cheney writes that when she told her parents she was gay, the first words out of her father’s mouth “were exactly the ones that I wanted to hear: ‘You’re my daughter, and I love you, and I just want you to be happy.’”
VANITY FAIR editor Todd Purdum reports that Mary Cheney tells her story in a voice very much like her father’s, and that she came out to her parents when she was a junior in high school, on a day when, after breaking up with her first girlfriend, she skipped school, ran a red light, and crashed the family car. Cheney writes that her mother hugged her, but then burst into tears, worried that she would face a life of pain and prejudice.
When Purdum asks the vice president whether he thinks gay people are born that way, Cheney scrunches up his mouth, fixes him with a look that says “Nice try,” then says: “I’m not going to get into that. Those are deeply personal questions. You can ask.”
Mary Cheney tells Purdum that her father “has very little tolerance for bullshit, pardon my French.” She also says that one common reaction from people who have read the manuscript of her book is “‘Wow, you guys really have this close-knit, loving family,’ and it always strikes me as ‘Yeah, of course we do.’ It was very surprising to me that people would think we didn’t.”
When Purdum asks Cheney if he is fatalistic about his heart disease, Cheney says, “I am. I don’t even think about it most of the time. You do those things a prudent man would do, and I live with it.” Asked what he would have for breakfast at Nora’s Fish Creek Inn, his favorite pre-fishing spot in Wilson, Wyoming, Cheney responds without missing a beat: “I’d probably have two eggs over easy, sausage and hash browns,” then hastens to add that that is not his normal breakfast. “The day I go fishing, I get off my diet,” he says.” At a roundtable lunch with reporters a couple of years ago, two who were present tell Purdum that Cheney cut his buffalo steak in bite-size pieces the moment it arrived, then proceeded to salt each side of each piece.
Cheney tells Purdum that he has not changed over the years, but perhaps many of his contemporaries think he has “because of my associations over the years, or because I came across as a reasonable guy, people have one view of me that was not necessarily an accurate reflection of my philosophy or my view of the world.”
Purdum asks Cheney if, during his “darkest night,” he has even “a little doubt” about the administration’s course. “No,” he tells Purdum. “I think we’ve done what needed to be done.” Of the debate over whether or not the administration hyped the pre-war intelligence, Cheney says, “In the end, you can argue about the quality of the intelligence and so forth, but ... I look at that whole spectrum of possibilities and options, and I think we did the right thing.”
Cheney rejects the caricature of him as the power behind the throne, insisting, “I think we have created a system that works for this president and for me, in terms of my ability to be able to contribute and participate in the process.” When Purdum says that the cartoon characterization of him must not be accurate, Cheney says, “My image might be better out there, this caricature you talk about might be avoided, if I spent more time as a public figure trying to improve my image, but that’s not why I’m here.”
Purdum reports that Cheney travels with a chemical-biological suit at all times. When he gave his friend Robin West and his twin children a ride to the White House a couple of years ago, West commented on the fact that Cheney’s motorcade varied its daily path. “And he said, ‘Yeah, we take different routes so that “The Jackal” can’t get me,’” West tells Purdum. “And then there was this big duffel bag in the middle of the backseat, and I said, ‘What’s that? It’s not very roomy in here.’ And [Cheney] said, ‘No, because it’s a chemical-biological suit,’ and he looked at it and said, ‘Robin, there’s only one. You lose.’”
Purdum talks with former New York Times reporter and former executive editor of The Philadelphia Inquirer, James Naughton, who asks of Cheney: “Does he acknowledge that he is not as pleasant as he used to be?” Naughton knew Cheney as a fellow prankster during the 1976 campaign, and all but sighs in search of an explanation as to why he is so different now. “I guess I would like to believe,” he says, “without any evidence to support it, that coming very close to death has somehow compelled him to act as though he only has so much breath and so much life, that he’s only got so much time to accomplish what he has to do. But the public figure is nothing like the private one that I remember.”
Gerald Ford tells Purdum: “He may have changed a bit, but that was required for the change of circumstances.” Ford, who will turn 93 in July, adds, “Times change, and people change as a result of that.”
“If you’re looking for a change from one point to another, being vice president is sui generis,” Lynne Cheney tells Purdum. “It’s not quite like any other job.”
The June issue of Vanity Fair hits newsstands in New York and L.A. on May 3 and nationally on May 9.
Who I would prefer as parents is for me to judge EV.
Have you seen the Queer By Choice site? While not scientific research, the queer by choice members admit to choosing the lifestyle. As an aside, all the scientific research that claims any genetic basis for homosexuality has been debunked.
Besides that, the post by last american didn't say homosexuals choose something that is reviled and despised. Rather, it said "A third of homosexuals' children become homosexual." It's a complicated issue that you are making more difficult by (apparently) equating become with choose.
When we listen to ex-gays we learn their same-sex attraction wasn't a choice because they were confused, but their behavior was always a choice.
He had already mentioned adultery. So tell me, what sexual immorality was He talking about?
And those people who say they would never speak to their child again if they found out the child was a homosexual would do the same if their child: lied, stole or had evil thoughts?
You didn't read the whole thread, did you? Or at least, not all my posts.
Where have I said that it was? Taking this personally?
Picking and choosing our sins again, are we?
This threads subject was homosexuality.
Your knickers are certainly in a knot and I'm wondering why.
Once more: When she wrote that little missive you posted, she was still living under a roof that her Dad paid for.
And in fact, she stayed under it for a long time after that. Months.
Now, carry on with your hatefest...
Fair enough, but your "interpretation" violates the integrity of the parable, and mine does not.
Is that your impression of how the Holy Spirit operates?
No it doesn't.
How does your theology deal with the "sin unto death" concept of John's epistle?
One other piece of context, for the lurkers (since I know you and your friends could care less about the facts):
At the time of the piece of that particular piece of blogging you posted, the young lady in question was going to Washington, DC to march with the radical Left (who were actively using her as a propaganda tool) against the Administration.
This is what the controversy between them was primarily about during that time period.
Perfectly understandable if a highly-committed conservative father wasn't going to support her in such activities.
Again, back to your regularly scheduled hatefest...
Actually, no, it's not. The GSA has allowed lesbians in. I was VERY disappointed when I read that.
Thanks for clearing that up ;o)
Alan Keyes places his politics over his children.
Dick Cheney places his children over his politics.
Right from your mouth.
No problem.
You're not a parent, are you EV?
I would say that Alan Keyes shows more love by not empowering his daughter's self-destructive lifestyle.
Dick Cheney says, "I just want you to be happy, dear."
I've yet to meet a truly happy homosexual. Have you?
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