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"Dad Was Fine When I Came Out of Closet" -- Mary Cheney
Drudge Report ^ | May 2, 2006 | Drudge

Posted on 05/02/2006 1:10:54 PM PDT by meandog

New York, N.Y. – In her new memoir, NOW IT'S MY TURN(Simon & Schuster/Threshold Editions, 2006), Mary Cheney writes that when she told her parents she was gay, the first words out of her father’s mouth “were exactly the ones that I wanted to hear: ‘You’re my daughter, and I love you, and I just want you to be happy.’”

VANITY FAIR editor Todd Purdum reports that Mary Cheney tells her story in a voice very much like her father’s, and that she came out to her parents when she was a junior in high school, on a day when, after breaking up with her first girlfriend, she skipped school, ran a red light, and crashed the family car. Cheney writes that her mother hugged her, but then burst into tears, worried that she would face a life of pain and prejudice.

When Purdum asks the vice president whether he thinks gay people are born that way, Cheney scrunches up his mouth, fixes him with a look that says “Nice try,” then says: “I’m not going to get into that. Those are deeply personal questions. You can ask.”

Mary Cheney tells Purdum that her father “has very little tolerance for bullshit, pardon my French.” She also says that one common reaction from people who have read the manuscript of her book is “‘Wow, you guys really have this close-knit, loving family,’ and it always strikes me as ‘Yeah, of course we do.’ It was very surprising to me that people would think we didn’t.”

When Purdum asks Cheney if he is fatalistic about his heart disease, Cheney says, “I am. I don’t even think about it most of the time. You do those things a prudent man would do, and I live with it.” Asked what he would have for breakfast at Nora’s Fish Creek Inn, his favorite pre-fishing spot in Wilson, Wyoming, Cheney responds without missing a beat: “I’d probably have two eggs over easy, sausage and hash browns,” then hastens to add that that is not his normal breakfast. “The day I go fishing, I get off my diet,” he says.” At a roundtable lunch with reporters a couple of years ago, two who were pres­ent tell Purdum that Cheney cut his buffalo steak in bite-size pieces the moment it arrived, then proceeded to salt each side of each piece.

Cheney tells Purdum that he has not changed over the years, but perhaps many of his contemporaries think he has “because of my associations over the years, or because I came across as a reasonable guy, people have one view of me that was not necessarily an accurate reflection of my philosophy or my view of the world.”

Purdum asks Cheney if, during his “darkest night,” he has even “a little doubt” about the administration’s course. “No,” he tells Purdum. “I think we’ve done what needed to be done.” Of the debate over whether or not the administration hyped the pre-war intelligence, Cheney says, “In the end, you can argue about the quality of the intelligence and so forth, but ... I look at that whole spectrum of possibilities and options, and I think we did the right thing.”

Cheney rejects the caricature of him as the power behind the throne, insisting, “I think we have created a system that works for this president and for me, in terms of my ability to be able to contribute and participate in the process.” When Purdum says that the cartoon characterization of him must not be accurate, Cheney says, “My image might be better out there, this caricature you talk about might be avoided, if I spent more time as a public figure trying to improve my image, but that’s not why I’m here.”

Purdum reports that Cheney travels with a chemical-biological suit at all times. When he gave his friend Robin West and his twin children a ride to the White House a couple of years ago, West commented on the fact that Cheney’s motorcade varied its daily path. “And he said, ‘Yeah, we take different routes so that “The Jackal” can’t get me,’” West tells Purdum. “And then there was this big duffel bag in the middle of the backseat, and I said, ‘What’s that? It’s not very roomy in here.’ And [Cheney] said, ‘No, because it’s a chemical-biological suit,’ and he looked at it and said, ‘Robin, there’s only one. You lose.’”

Purdum talks with former New York Times reporter and former executive editor of The Philadelphia Inquirer, James Naughton, who asks of Cheney: “Does he acknowledge that he is not as pleasant as he used to be?” Naughton knew Cheney as a fellow prankster during the 1976 campaign, and all but sighs in search of an explanation as to why he is so different now. “I guess I would like to believe,” he says, “without any evidence to support it, that coming very close to death has somehow compelled him to act as though he only has so much breath and so much life, that he’s only got so much time to accomplish what he has to do. But the public figure is nothing like the private one that I remember.”

Gerald Ford tells Purdum: “He may have changed a bit, but that was required for the change of circumstances.” Ford, who will turn 93 in July, adds, “Times change, and people change as a result of that.”

“If you’re looking for a change from one point to another, being vice president is sui generis,” Lynne Cheney tells Purdum. “It’s not quite like any other job.”

The June issue of Vanity Fair hits newsstands in New York and L.A. on May 3 and nationally on May 9.


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To: Annie5622

I suppose we shouldn't make any distinction between sin and righteousness...good or evil...God or Satan. Let's remain indifferent, right! Lest we be judgemental..gasp!!


201 posted on 05/02/2006 4:06:52 PM PDT by Conservative Coulter Fan (I am defiantly proud of being part of the Religious Right in America.)
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To: EternalVigilance
Falling off a cliff is nowhere near as bad as living forever apart from God.

What do you know of forever?

202 posted on 05/02/2006 4:07:23 PM PDT by Sunsong
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To: Sunsong

What do you know of forever?




I've been to the Ice Capades!


203 posted on 05/02/2006 4:08:10 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: sinkspur

That's because there isn't any irony in it...oy vey!!


204 posted on 05/02/2006 4:08:52 PM PDT by Conservative Coulter Fan (I am defiantly proud of being part of the Religious Right in America.)
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To: Sunsong
"...homosexuals and sinners..."

Homosexuals are sinners...sin is of the Satan...and Satan is the enemy of God and mankind.
205 posted on 05/02/2006 4:10:54 PM PDT by Conservative Coulter Fan (I am defiantly proud of being part of the Religious Right in America.)
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To: Democratshavenobrains

I honestly think it's all interwoven like fabric. I also believe that you can't be a moral leader in the world if your country is an immoral morass.


206 posted on 05/02/2006 4:11:53 PM PDT by DJ MacWoW (If you think you know what's coming next....You don't know Jack.)
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To: Conservative Coulter Fan

What if homosexuals hold religious beliefs that don't condemn their lifestyle? Are they still going to hell?


207 posted on 05/02/2006 4:12:24 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: utahagen; EternalVigilance

If a child tries to humiliate you, you weren't a very good parent, no matter what EteranalVigilance wants you to believe.


208 posted on 05/02/2006 4:13:09 PM PDT by Hildy (Producing a penny now costs the government more than 1.4 cents)
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To: durasell; Conservative Coulter Fan
What if homosexuals hold religious beliefs that don't condemn their lifestyle? Are they still going to hell?

Yes.

209 posted on 05/02/2006 4:14:47 PM PDT by DJ MacWoW (If you think you know what's coming next....You don't know Jack.)
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To: DJ MacWoW

How about if they hold no religious beliefs whatsoever? Still going to hell?


210 posted on 05/02/2006 4:17:08 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: durasell

Well, I will just go ahead and assume that by "religious beliefs," you mean Christianity, and you cannot maintain such a lifestyle...repenting not...and expect to be spared punishment, because then you're so-called beliefs are hallow and empty...indeed false...for you've chosen to abide by your own fetish and lust as opposed to obiedence to God, which is considered love for God.


211 posted on 05/02/2006 4:17:21 PM PDT by Conservative Coulter Fan (I am defiantly proud of being part of the Religious Right in America.)
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To: Conservative Coulter Fan
That's why...and I'm not corrupted to the point where I just flutter my eyes...through out abstract words like love and compassion...while ignoring the fact that the Bible condemns such sin roundly...and warns of eternal damnation.

"Love" and "compassion" are abstract words to you, huh? How did I know that?

You seem to have a concrete understanding of how to tear sinners a new one.

You believe in a very angry God who seems to be just waiting for his creation to trip up so He can throw them in to hell. Is that how you believe God occupies His time?

212 posted on 05/02/2006 4:17:29 PM PDT by sinkspur ( I didn't know until just now that it was Barzini all along.)
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To: Hildy
"If a child tries to humiliate you, you weren't a very good parent"

That's an illogical statement. The conclusion does not follow from the observation.

213 posted on 05/02/2006 4:17:37 PM PDT by spunkets
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To: DJ MacWoW
" Yes."

On what grounds?

214 posted on 05/02/2006 4:20:04 PM PDT by spunkets
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To: Conservative Coulter Fan
Homosexuals are sinners...sin is of the Satan...and Satan is the enemy of God and mankind.

We are all sinners. God NEVER turns his back on us. He is always there, eager to give us absolution for true repentance.

With that as an example, how can I do anything but try to do the same?

215 posted on 05/02/2006 4:20:52 PM PDT by Dianna
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To: Conservative Coulter Fan
Well, I will just go ahead and assume that by "religious beliefs," you mean Christianity...


Uh no, I meant the whole shebang: Jewish, Buddhist, Hari Krishna, Shinto, shamanism, even weird primitive animistic religions.
216 posted on 05/02/2006 4:20:59 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: durasell
How about if they hold no religious beliefs whatsoever? Still going to hell?

Yes.

217 posted on 05/02/2006 4:21:32 PM PDT by DJ MacWoW (If you think you know what's coming next....You don't know Jack.)
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To: spunkets
On what grounds?

The Word of God.

218 posted on 05/02/2006 4:22:09 PM PDT by DJ MacWoW (If you think you know what's coming next....You don't know Jack.)
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To: DJ MacWoW
" The Word of God."

Chapter and verse from God Himself.

219 posted on 05/02/2006 4:23:54 PM PDT by spunkets
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To: DJ MacWoW

Tell God hello for me


220 posted on 05/02/2006 4:24:40 PM PDT by woofie (Go after "Small Oil" first ,then build up)
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